Therapy

Like a diamond out of the rough, so was I when I first walked into Mr Bankole’s class sometime in March 2016. Filled and constantly tormented by the happenings in my upbringing. Low in confidence and losing everything I had worked for as a result of the battles in my mind. Once known as a very articulate and inspirational speaker but all that became a shadow as the horrible and “nightmareish” created by the people who have at one time or the other handled my life have created in me.

Messed up by those experiences, everything in my life began to change, my weaknesses became more pronounced and my strengths suddenly became weaknesses. I became like a man who enlisted in the army of his enemies to wage war against himself. I lost everything…my confidence, my assertiveness, my brilliance, initiative and exceptional problem solving skills were all gone. I got to that stage where I felt as though the emptiness in me is only surpassed by the emptiness in me. I lost everything, I began to live a life without ambition, vision or goals…just living each day without any hope at sight and yes, I contemplated suicide! I wanted to end it all but guess what; God was and is always faithful.

God led me to Mr Bankole’s class through a friend and from that day, I began living again. I had a therapy session for about 2 hours with Mr Bankole and just like a blacksmith refining gold, he was able to through his expertise help me to uproot all the bad experiences in my life and also realign me with my true values.

Don’t let a trial convince you but let the experience mould and reshape you.
Thank you Mr Bankole for allowing God to use you so mightily for me and I believe that God will use Mr Bankole for you too…only if you are ready to open your mind and follow his leadership.

Now I have a life full of light and beautiful experiences!
You can too…if you want.

Omotunde Davies

My story is amazing one I must say, but meeting Bankole made it awesome.

I was on a journey to loosing myself, I never knew what was going wrong with me but I knew somehow I had lost track of who I really was, filled with anger, I could not relate to love and I was scared to show it even if tried to come around.

I did not like how I felt but I did not want to change who I was because I imagined people will begin to see my weakness and hence start taking me for granted.

I attended the mind-set makeover class with an I really do not care attitude but then when the class was over, I broke down in tears not only was my mind-set was worked on, it hit me that my life has been controlled by some forces I personally was not aware of, I went further and booked a therapy session and that was my moment of change.

I was able to uncover the hidden truth of my past that now affected my future, I connected with the decisions I made from the very day I heard that slap my mum gave me on my face just because I wanted to help resolve a dispute between herself and my dad and I vowed never to care or show love to anyone since that was what it caused me.

After my session with Bankole, my eyes opened and it felt like I had been seeing the world from the wrong angle, I felt lighter and free of the burden as Bankole carefully walked me through the process of divine healing, making me see the best out of that situation and how my life can be better if I wanted it to.

From that day till today I made the choice and my life has never remained the same.

To say Bankole is a great coach is an understandment he is a blessing sent to the world to help lift the burden of pain and I am a witness to that.

Uju Chukwu

For a while now, I have been under the coaching of Bankole Williams and today after a long time we had a therapy session has planned.

Let me rewind back a bit, before the day was scheduled I was a bit anxious and as the days came close, it grew but the hustle and bustle of life made me forget it.

Fast forward to a day before the session and as usual, I had thoughts of not showing up but rather than talking myself out of it, I gave myself reasons to attend the session

So I am in Bankole Williams office and there are questions which I proffer answers to. I tried not to get weepy but I spilled a few. From the beginning, he made sure I was comfortable with the whole process and what it would entail which made me more than ready to start.

We walked through incidences in my past and gradually, I just let my guard without knowing(not something I do well) After the session, I came to the realisation that I was an opportunity waiting to happen and though I couldn’t understand some of what happened and Bankole told me not to try to. I felt inspired, lifted, fearless, new, like all those things that happened didn’t matter anymore. In reality, they don’t really matter.

The more exciting part is on my home, I was doing things, I don’t normally do like saying hello to almost everyone I came close to and there was a stride in my steps that I was wondering where it came from.

Suddenly, I knew what I wanted and I can’t wait to put it on paper. I sincerely can live with this and I am expectant of my achievements.

Hope you all find your resolutions

Tasleemah T.

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